Hello Beautiful People!
Life has its challenges and it is particularly challenging when you lack adequate support. How do you stay motivated? Who do you bounce off of? There has to be at least one person on the face of this earth whom you can speak to be heard and understood. If you feel as though there is no one at all, then it is your responsibility to seek a support system, not to leech off of but to have a genuine connection with. Support system does not mean the person you go to for money or material things.
A genuine support system is someone who listens, does not give unsolicited advice, but gives you honest feedback without the judgement. For some of us, it may take a lifetime to gain such a relationship. But to gain this type of friendship means that we have to make adjustments to ourselves. We cannot be overly needy or materialistic, hurtful or selfish. The key to any healthy relationship is to relinquish that every man for himself attitude.
Give and you shall receive. It is all about balance. You support others and the right support for you will eventually appear. Don't seek immediate gratification.
Happy healthy living!